He knows what you like in bed.
In his 20s, the 10-second rule applied. Fast forward a couple of decades and he knows just what YOU want.
“I’m all about making my spouse happy,” Barker says. “It comes down to finding the meld between your likes and their likes -- and making it seem effortless so that it brings you together in the moment.”
Part of that is his new-found ability to slow down. The race isn’t about speed – rather, stamina.
“As we age, we are in no hurry to get to the main event. That’s because we now know it’s not going anywhere -- and that getting there is half the fun,” says Mike Hummel, 40.
Trial and error appear to play a major role in this concept. He has an instinct he didn’t have as a younger man.
“We have experienced all kinds of different situations and can adapt until we find the perfect combination that unlocks that one mind-blowing experience we hope she will never forget,” Hummel says.
And don’t believe the rumors that his sex drive is kaput. In fact, it’s more alive than ever.